Hold On to yourself: It's never that difficult!!!

You can't run away from the situations that happen in your life. Sometimes, it becomes really difficult to face what is coming towards you but you have to be strong enough to tackle it with as much calmness as possible. You always don't have an option to choose what you really want. Sometimes, you just have to go with the flow. I wonder sometimes, why do we have to go through hard circumstances; circumstances, which change you once and for all. They make you a person you never really were, neither you wanted to be that person. But may be it's important to change at times, just to make sure that you are not allowing anyone else to harm you. When you come out in this world, when you try to do things on your own, life has it's own way of teaching you things. Teaching by experiences. It allows you to get into something bad and then it just makes you learn that whatever you see, whatever you feel is not right always. Each and every experience you go through makes you stronger for sure but slowly and gradually it changes you a lot. You stop believing in people, you are always scared of some unknown that can happen to you, you just become a different personality. We have so many people in the world. Each one dealing with their own kind of difficulties; difficulties that only they can understand because they are going through it. Still somehow they manage to come out of it, that's their will power of coming out of all the odds that are thrown on their way. As a person, you only grow when you are put into situations which make you weak, helpless, lonely and vulnerable. If you are able to get out of it, you are really strong. But there are some people out there who don't even give a thought before doing just anything. They just do what makes them happy. I don't know whether it's a right thing or not because thinking about your own happiness is never wrong but does your happiness destroys another being... Is thinking about that is not worth? How does a human decide that they can change somebody's life so much that they are not able to get on it again. However, I don't blame anyone for what they do because may be they thought that it was the right thing to do in that situation. 

Talking about me, I am in a confused state right now. I don't know where I am going, what I am doing, what should I do or what I should have done. It's all a bit messed up. But, each and every passing day teaches me that whatever you are going through, you are the only person who can help yourself. You have to put yourself together, no matter what and you have to move on with whatever is left inside you. You have to be more alive than you were yesterday. Life has it's own way of giving you surprises. So, just wait for what it has to give you. But, never stop making attempts. Do what makes you feel happy. These days, I am more into sketching, blogging, learning new things, cooking,(people say I have become a really nice cook 😁), talking to people(my all time favorite activity), getting to know my flaws and exploring new places. I have a big list of what I want to do. I don't know whether they will work as I thought or not but I have to give it a try. Rest all, lets leave on life. It will take care about everything else.

To all those people who are going through something bad in their life, please be patient and cheer yourself up. There is nothing that you can't do. There is nothing that cannot be achieved by you. Try to make short goals, complete them, once you achieve them you will be confident enough to achieve what you had been dreaming of always. Remember that Life does not stops, no matter what comes and what goes. It has to go on and you have to make yourself worthy enough to have it. You have been blessed by a gift called Life. Love yourself, dream big and be strong enough to let go of things not meant for you. As I said, Life has it's own way of giving you surprises!! So, just wait for it. You never know what surprise is waiting for you next. 😊 😉😉

New Beginnings....

Change is the only constant thing in the world. I had been coming across this phrase lately but was never able to understand what it actually means. To embrace new beginning in life you have to let go off things which are not meant for you. It is all about how gracefully you let go off negative thoughts, negative people and negative energy out of your life. You have been gifted just one life and you cannot afford to waste it by being sad, by crying or by regretting things you have done or you haven't done. Whatever is done can never be reverted back but what is yet to come is in your hands. Life always gives you two options in every situation. You are the one who decides which one to choose and which one to leave.

Your life is your masterpiece and you are the one who is solely responsible for whatever happens to you.
What matters is that no matter what... you have to move on, you have to survive and you have to embrace every change that comes in your way. Every option that we choose gives us an experience which is worth. 

With every new day, I am learning new things and I am happy about it. I am happy about the way thinking of people in our country is changing. I have got few great people in Bangalore and I am thankful to life that I met them. I would like to mention those angels of my life here. My first friend in Bangalore, my life's first room mate. Bashobi you are a sweetheart. She has been with me in my best and worst. I can always rely on her for any advice. She is like sister from another mother. Last year was a tough and struggling phase of my life and the one person who never left my side and been always with me is her. Two very important people of my life, Uttam and Vishal have also been the best buddies. They are my colleagues and there is no gender bias between us. I can go and share any problem of my life with them. They have inspired me and been with me in my tough times. I have never felt them judging me in any situation. Rather than judging, they have always listened to me and tried to understand my point of view. We have met each other in adult age but it seems we are childhood friends. Life seems easy when they are around. Specially Uttam...if you are reading this.. I would like to thank you for everything. For guiding me and being a great mentor, for being my best friend, for being the person who never leaves my side no matter what the situation is. Then comes my roomie Bhargavi. Darling, you are very special and trust me on this. I am lucky to have you in my life. We have lived good and bad times together. We have done stupid and crazy stuff. I am going to miss you a lot, our weekend laziness, cooking food together, caring for each other, making random plans, clicking 1000 of selfies, cleaning our messy home together, watching movies just to make fun of them, listening to old songs, our late night conversations.... there are numerous other small small moments that we have spent together. Life is changing so swiftly and unpredictably that we can never hold on to these moments forever. I am really lucky to have you guys in my life.

Growing up complicates lot of things which used to be very simple in our childhood days. When you are a child you don't need  anyone to be happy, you are just happy with yourself. However, when you grow up your happiness relies on the people you love. You don't feel good if those people move away from you even a few inches. You tend to miss them and make yourself gloomy. But growing up also allows you to have the maturity of understanding the other person. You try to understand what the other person thinks... what the other person is and you try to make them comfortable with everything possible you can do. Loving someone and feeling loved is the most beautiful feeling of the world. So all the people out there, Be yourself... spread love.. spread happiness... Keep Smiling....