Today is life....

As the time passes we tend to forget that Today is more important than Tomorrow. Life is a rush, nobody has time for nobody. In these busy days people have forgot to live their life Today. I was also among such people few days back but I realized the essence of living life. Coming to Bangalore has made a drastic change in my life and that too positive one. Each and every day is great here. Don't know how but somehow it was clear to me that I am changing, I am trying to identify the real Me. 

In this one month only, I have met lot of people, communicated with them, tried to understand their perspective and lot of other things and realized that I was far away from the world for so many days. I like this change. :)

I always used to think that this is not the correct time to do anything but now I think for everything this is the correct time, the time when you want to do it , the time when you are happy to do it. I met with people like Kebir Swaminathan Iyer, Nancy James and Gaurav Mathur, who to a lot of extent changed the way of my thinking. Life is very short to do anything or to understand anything. Ages go on and you are sometimes not able to understand a person. Sometimes communication becomes so difficult that you fear to face the consequences of saying what your heart says to you. 

Life has become so busy that everyone is involved in one's own Cabin. After so many experiences that I have got since 1 year I learnt that real happiness is not in running behind wealth or luxury or worldly assets, rather happiness is in talking to a dear friend who has a special place in your heart, watching a baby who smiles and cries for small reasons, the innocence, the nature, care of parents, love of your friends and smile on someone's face. All these things can bring much more happiness to you than any other worldly thing. The inner joy can only be achieved if you really are able to make yourself happy for No reason.

Problems are never going to end. They are a part of your life, if they are not there you would not be able to grasp the happiness so happily when it comes to you. Whatever you want to do, do with all your heart and mind. Opportunities are never ready to knock on your door. You are the one who is going to build a door where opportunity can knock.Identifying your ability, knowing it and then actually working on it is not a cup of tea for everyone, its really a tough task. Very few people can actually do it and who does it can see what positive results it has for their life. 

'Quitting is an option, but sustaining is always a choice'- This line said to me by Kebir has insisted me think on it and really it has a deep meaning. It seems as if every day we are here to learn something to understand something. it only needs one thing-" To stay calm" because 'You can never see deep through disturbed water'. So you need to be calm to go till depth. You need to be very happy to enjoy each second.

At last I just want to say, keep smiling friends, life is ready to give a lot of experiences whether happy or sad just except them and move ahead with a positive curve on your face and live to a brim.

Life is a Teacher: Full of Struggle but U have to Keep Smiling :)

It's been a long time since I have wrote anything. First of all wish all of u a very Happy Laughter Day.... :)

Someone once told me that Life is the greatest teacher who can teach you everything and really its a true saying. Life can teach you anything and everything which you are not gonna learn from your school, college, teachers or friends. I had understood the fact and tried to change myself a lot and to a great extent I had been successful in adapting myself to the worst situations and remaining happy no matter what the situation is.

March was the worst month I had ever seen but thanks to Nammo and Oju who tried to make me understand and taught me as if i am a 5 year old child and literally i was feeling that time as if I am a child and two elder sisters of mine are scolding me and then loving me. Special thanks to Oju, you really made my day and i still remember your preaching that:

  "No one has perfect life which begins with

 "Once upon a time" and ends with "Happily ever after".

   Life begins with "Welcome to the struggle"

   and ends with "You are lucky to have survived the journey"

   If you wait for happy moments, you will wait forever.

   But if u start believing that you are happy, you will be Happy Forever"

I cherished the time spent with you and "Main tera Hero" was awesome... ;) LOL

Nammo, I am angry with you. How can you forget my birthday and till now you don't even know that you had forgot that. Just give me a call, now its my turn to scold you....:D and don't dare to make any excuses that I was busy or something like that. 

Well today is laughter day...the day to be happy, to keep smiling, to laugh actually. So friends laugh and laugh till your stomach aches.... :D 

                                                      

"Fun is like life insurance; the older you get, the more it costs. "

So keep it safe as it is a treasure of the life.

Be happy...... keep calm...... I know the world is not full of good people around you but our thoughts and feelings can so easily be influenced by how we perceive others. If we make a firm choice to always keep a positive vision of those around us, then we will enjoy better relationships.

A hater's job is to find all of your flaws, then throw them in your face every day. Your job is to love yourself and keep smiling.

In these few days where I was kind of underground I had learnt a lot of things by myself, with the help of some good friends and relatives around me. I have taken the negative comments on me in a positive way, kept myself calm and quiet and tried to handle every situation by myself . Just one more thing that I need to develop in me is not to cry for everything. I learnt that "Giving up is easy. Facing the truth is hard and doing what you really want is important rather than what others say. Just because you fail once, it doesn't mean you’re going to fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always believe in yourself because if you don’t, then who will? So keep your head high, keep  your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about."

Just waiting for my day to come... :)

Missing Nammo, Oju, Tripta, Prachi ....... Hope we will meet soon and cherish the past moments when we used to spend all day together and having lot of fun. 

At last I would just say 

Just keep smiling and pretending you're happy, 

and then maybe after you've convinced everyone else that you are, you can convince yourself.

                                                              

                                                                    Happy Laughter Day!!!!

Nothing is Alright

Sometimes life seems so unpredictable that you really cant even imagine if whatever is happening is real.... Same is the case with me nowadays... I am not saying m not happy but these days nothing is "Really Good". Don't know why someone cant understand me. Its just like being all alone and trying to manipulate oneself that Everything is alright or going to be alright. But the question is "When?" a big question "But When?"....and the answer to this is simply "I don't know" ..."A BIG NO"....
   I know this is just the starting...Everyone faces problems m not an exception but i really am an exception nowadays.....Missing all my buddies...my dear friends....my social network....and the most "My Skills"... All these are now just alien to me...It has been nearly 8 months..everything is changed since then...lot of things...I really don't know how I got this patience and from where but m really a little bit "unstable electron" who cant sit idle....but m not really idle....in fact m much more surrounded by "THINGS".... things like preparation, study, job, thoughts, career, family, future and bla bla bla....Lost so many things since then...
Just need a lot of determination so that I can prove myself to ME.
Situations are getting worse not that worse but worse at my level. I know there are so many people around having lot more problems than I have. But I did not had anyone to tell my "Thoughts"... so I just started writing...I really don't know What m writing or why m writing but still m writing...just to diverge my mind so that I can use it in right direction in an efficient way rather than thinking about something which doesn't have any real FORM. I just want to tell all those people who are really close to me that I am really missing them. M missing Prakash's Smile, Nammo's Mummi wala love, Oju's suggestions, Ashu's Confidence in me, Surbhi's Professional Cooperation, Srayosi's Wishes, Mukesh's Idiotic jokes.... These are those people who have been with me in every situation of my life n I would really like to thank all of them to make me feel special and to push me forward whenever I get disheartened. 
Its a really tough time for me and m sure that I will get over this very soon. M just trying to be happy....coz u cant do anything if u r not happy...well I used to be a very happy n jolly person 2 years back...m trying get that personality of mine back. She was a person who was full of life and m really trying hard to get that. I have a strong belief that "Man k haare haar hai man k jeete jeet".....and there are some things for which i regret...“I don’t regret the things I’ve done, I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance.” 
College life is over and i really did not enjoyed it but its my dream to be with all of my dear friends just one day....and enjoying every second of it.

After writing all these thoughts of mine which really are so stupid to read I came to the conclusion that "Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude"

So keep smiling all of u and be happy.... :)