Sunday 17 September 2017

New Beginnings....

Change is the only constant thing in the world. I had been coming across this phrase lately but was never able to understand what it actually means. To embrace new beginning in life you have to let go off things which are not meant for you. It is all about how gracefully you let go off negative thoughts, negative people and negative energy out of your life. You have been gifted just one life and you cannot afford to waste it by being sad, by crying or by regretting things you have done or you haven't done. Whatever is done can never be reverted back but what is yet to come is in your hands. Life always gives you two options in every situation. You are the one who decides which one to choose and which one to leave.


Your life is your masterpiece and you are the one who is solely responsible for whatever happens to you.
What matters is that no matter what... you have to move on, you have to survive and you have to embrace every change that comes in your way. Every option that we choose gives us an experience which is worth. 

With every new day, I am learning new things and I am happy about it. I am happy about the way thinking of people in our country is changing. I have got few great people in Bangalore and I am thankful to life that I met them. I would like to mention those angels of my life here. My first friend in Bangalore, my life's first room mate. Bashobi you are a sweetheart. She has been with me in my best and worst. I can always rely on her for any advice. She is like sister from another mother. Last year was a tough and struggling phase of my life and the one person who never left my side and been always with me is her. Two very important people of my life, Uttam and Vishal have also been the best buddies. They are my colleagues and there is no gender bias between us. I can go and share any problem of my life with them. They have inspired me and been with me in my tough times. I have never felt them judging me in any situation. Rather than judging, they have always listened to me and tried to understand my point of view. We have met each other in adult age but it seems we are childhood friends. Life seems easy when they are around. Specially Uttam...if you are reading this.. I would like to thank you for everything. For guiding me and being a great mentor, for being my best friend, for being the person who never leaves my side no matter what the situation is. Then comes my roomie Bhargavi. Darling, you are very special and trust me on this. I am lucky to have you in my life. We have lived good and bad times together. We have done stupid and crazy stuff. I am going to miss you a lot, our weekend laziness, cooking food together, caring for each other, making random plans, clicking 1000 of selfies, cleaning our messy home together, watching movies just to make fun of them, listening to old songs, our late night conversations.... there are numerous other small small moments that we have spent together. Life is changing so swiftly and unpredictably that we can never hold on to these moments forever. I am really lucky to have you guys in my life.


Growing up complicates lot of things which used to be very simple in our childhood days. When you are a child you don't need  anyone to be happy, you are just happy with yourself. However, when you grow up your happiness relies on the people you love. You don't feel good if those people move away from you even a few inches. You tend to miss them and make yourself gloomy. But growing up also allows you to have the maturity of understanding the other person. You try to understand what the other person thinks... what the other person is and you try to make them comfortable with everything possible you can do. Loving someone and feeling loved is the most beautiful feeling of the world. So all the people out there, Be yourself... spread love.. spread happiness... Keep Smiling....