Saturday 3 May 2014

Life is a Teacher: Full of Struggle but U have to Keep Smiling :)

It's been a long time since I have wrote anything. First of all wish all of u a very Happy Laughter Day.... :)
Someone once told me that Life is the greatest teacher who can teach you everything and really its a true saying. Life can teach you anything and everything which you are not gonna learn from your school, college, teachers or friends. I had understood the fact and tried to change myself a lot and to a great extent I had been successful in adapting myself to the worst situations and remaining happy no matter what the situation is.
March was the worst month I had ever seen but thanks to Nammo and Oju who tried to make me understand and taught me as if i am a 5 year old child and literally i was feeling that time as if I am a child and two elder sisters of mine are scolding me and then loving me. Special thanks to Oju, you really made my day and i still remember your preaching that:

  "No one has perfect life which begins with
 "Once upon a time" and ends with "Happily ever after".
   Life begins with "Welcome to the struggle"
   and ends with "You are lucky to have survived the journey"
   If you wait for happy moments, you will wait forever.
   But if u start believing that you are happy, you will be Happy Forever"

I cherished the time spent with you and "Main tera Hero" was awesome... ;) LOL
Nammo, I am angry with you. How can you forget my birthday and till now you don't even know that you had forgot that. Just give me a call, now its my turn to scold you....:D and don't dare to make any excuses that I was busy or something like that. 
Well today is laughter day...the day to be happy, to keep smiling, to laugh actually. So friends laugh and laugh till your stomach aches.... :D 
                                                      

"Fun is like life insurance; the older you get, the more it costs. "
So keep it safe as it is a treasure of the life.
Be happy...... keep calm...... I know the world is not full of good people around you but our thoughts and feelings can so easily be influenced by how we perceive others. If we make a firm choice to always keep a positive vision of those around us, then we will enjoy better relationships.
A hater's job is to find all of your flaws, then throw them in your face every day. Your job is to love yourself and keep smiling.
In these few days where I was kind of underground I had learnt a lot of things by myself, with the help of some good friends and relatives around me. I have taken the negative comments on me in a positive way, kept myself calm and quiet and tried to handle every situation by myself . Just one more thing that I need to develop in me is not to cry for everything. I learnt that "Giving up is easy. Facing the truth is hard and doing what you really want is important rather than what others say. Just because you fail once, it doesn't mean you’re going to fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always believe in yourself because if you don’t, then who will? So keep your head high, keep  your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about."
Just waiting for my day to come... :)
Missing Nammo, Oju, Tripta, Prachi ....... Hope we will meet soon and cherish the past moments when we used to spend all day together and having lot of fun. 
At last I would just say 
Just keep smiling and pretending you're happy, 
and then maybe after you've convinced everyone else that you are, you can convince yourself.

                                                              
                                                                    Happy Laughter Day!!!!






15 comments:

  1. Wow... This is just the best change in you and i am dam sure any person who read this will also feel Positive and Optimistic.. Very nice swati great job!!

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  2. thanks oju....n probably the credit goes to u, nammo n prakash... :)

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  3. Great Post - Nice to see you determined to change your outlook towards life.

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    2. thanx....n such change hs only been possible due to my friends n m lucky to hv them

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  4. Agreed & well said!

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  5. Just one thing. You abbreviate lots of words which takes away from your blog. I guess you SMS a lot and that habit has seeped into your blog.

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    1. No.... I don't SMS at all....actually the thing is that I am not a professional writer nor I write for having lot of readers....I just write for myself and my friends....and they understand easily whatever I write...but still if someone is having problem in understanding then I will try to write full words.....

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  6. Thanks for the clarification. What i like about your blog is the candidness. Choice of words, grammar,abbreviations does not matter.

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  7. Thanks for the praise, but according to me choice of words and grammar play a great role and have really an important place in anyone's writing.

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  8. Well I agree - what I meant was in some of the posts I liked on your blog, I did notice a few grammar issues. And on some occasions the choice of words could have been better. That being said the candidness in the posts made up for those issues and it still made an interesting read. So grammar and/or choice of words does not matter in that context. Anyways no offence - I am sure you can pick grammar issues in my comments as well :-)

    Have a great day!

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  9. Just came in here to see if there were any new posts. Anyways hello and have a great day.

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  10. Hope you blog about something soon.

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