Hold On to yourself: It's never that difficult!!!

You can't run away from the situations that happen in your life. Sometimes, it becomes really difficult to face what is coming towards you but you have to be strong enough to tackle it with as much calmness as possible. You always don't have an option to choose what you really want. Sometimes, you just have to go with the flow. I wonder sometimes, why do we have to go through hard circumstances; circumstances, which change you once and for all. They make you a person you never really were, neither you wanted to be that person. But may be it's important to change at times, just to make sure that you are not allowing anyone else to harm you. When you come out in this world, when you try to do things on your own, life has it's own way of teaching you things. Teaching by experiences. It allows you to get into something bad and then it just makes you learn that whatever you see, whatever you feel is not right always. Each and every experience you go through makes you stronger for sure but slowly and gradually it changes you a lot. You stop believing in people, you are always scared of some unknown that can happen to you, you just become a different personality. We have so many people in the world. Each one dealing with their own kind of difficulties; difficulties that only they can understand because they are going through it. Still somehow they manage to come out of it, that's their will power of coming out of all the odds that are thrown on their way. As a person, you only grow when you are put into situations which make you weak, helpless, lonely and vulnerable. If you are able to get out of it, you are really strong. But there are some people out there who don't even give a thought before doing just anything. They just do what makes them happy. I don't know whether it's a right thing or not because thinking about your own happiness is never wrong but does your happiness destroys another being... Is thinking about that is not worth? How does a human decide that they can change somebody's life so much that they are not able to get on it again. However, I don't blame anyone for what they do because may be they thought that it was the right thing to do in that situation. 

Talking about me, I am in a confused state right now. I don't know where I am going, what I am doing, what should I do or what I should have done. It's all a bit messed up. But, each and every passing day teaches me that whatever you are going through, you are the only person who can help yourself. You have to put yourself together, no matter what and you have to move on with whatever is left inside you. You have to be more alive than you were yesterday. Life has it's own way of giving you surprises. So, just wait for what it has to give you. But, never stop making attempts. Do what makes you feel happy. These days, I am more into sketching, blogging, learning new things, cooking,(people say I have become a really nice cook 😁), talking to people(my all time favorite activity), getting to know my flaws and exploring new places. I have a big list of what I want to do. I don't know whether they will work as I thought or not but I have to give it a try. Rest all, lets leave on life. It will take care about everything else.

To all those people who are going through something bad in their life, please be patient and cheer yourself up. There is nothing that you can't do. There is nothing that cannot be achieved by you. Try to make short goals, complete them, once you achieve them you will be confident enough to achieve what you had been dreaming of always. Remember that Life does not stops, no matter what comes and what goes. It has to go on and you have to make yourself worthy enough to have it. You have been blessed by a gift called Life. Love yourself, dream big and be strong enough to let go of things not meant for you. As I said, Life has it's own way of giving you surprises!! So, just wait for it. You never know what surprise is waiting for you next. 😊 😉😉